Recommended best-selling book

 Chinese parents teach children the concept of a shift in
a long time, Chinese parents emphasize their children's education are discipline and authority. These educational experiences, published in 2000, They have done a lot of her character develop training, including holding her ice time.

However, in recent years, encourage parents to develop children's independence and self-confidence of the books has become increasingly popular, not just focus on outstanding academic performance. These books reflect the way the education of Chinese middle-class families are quietly changes, especially growth in China's cities.
currently selling a book called This book is done in Beijing Yin Jianli high school teacher. Her parents listen to children's voices to promote the development potential of children but do not force them to comply with authority.
Chinese parents rarely questioned the decision of the teacher, but sometimes they take the initiative Yin Jianli homework for her daughter. Time, because her daughter could not remember certain words, the teacher punished her by copying the words a dozen times at night. Yinjian Li believes that this penalty Chaozuo Ye might damage children's interest in learning.
Sun Snow one by the best-selling book written by Sun Snow wrote that she The main idea of ​​the book is discovered that the
He wrote, our society, in a sense, is still a society full of prejudice level. But he asked the highest score in these examinations the students, how many people remain independent thinking, creativity and unique personality?
many readers of these books are more than 30 years old and 40-year-old parents, who was born in 1966 to 1976 during the Cultural Revolution. After this difficult period of turmoil, the traditional educational thinking, there are still stubbornly. At school, teachers continue to teach the test scores and the degree of compliance to assess the students. However, as China gradually opened its doors to the world, the Western philosophy of education began to spread, many parents began to question the traditional educational methods.
Published
why China than the United States a good mother, mother?
now, China's largest listed online bookselling platform Dangdang most popular books are written by authors outside the Mainland of China, including Korea, the United States, Taiwan, Japan, Germany and the UK. Including the introduction of the book, including the United States John? Gray (John Gray) Seoul? Faber (Adele Faber) and Elaine? Ma Zili Shi (Elaine Mazlish) wrote, Talk).
another best-selling book Xu Shuguang was born in rural China, and later a master's degree in the United States, as American business people. Xu and his daughter Ann was born in the United States and educated in the United States. Xu Shuguang in China for a hotel chain, or the chairman of a number of other multinational companies, he advocated the burden of parents to reduce children's learning, selected according to the child's interest in complementary extra-curricular activities, rather than the pursuit of their own parents, and ideals.
Xu Shuguang encourage daughters He said children should not be arrogant, but they should not be.

The first The first

 Friends asked me a few days before -together , when I excitedly put that glass , when handed a microphone in front of me : Run , you must sing ! At the time, I was scared face was flushed, his eyes kept looking around the places around , never nervous. Finally coming to an end , my heart gradually calmed down , I did not do anything incredible !
I born tone deaf , with his timid , since there is no sensible after been seen singing in front of everyone , which makes a lot of people fell horizons. I remember in college , a teacher who know the truth ask the students , But I do not want to change anything, so I began to sing , we even resorted to their trump card , even the most excessive demand in the KTV in a song for my This song , because I do not want my country disgraced ) However, I always stuck to their principles in : not everyone in this life will never sing before .
Today, however, it was all over , my first time so precious lost easily , but the music was over the moment , I put aside all Troubles and enjoy the pure pleasure.
fact that people live life , be happy ! Although the tone deaf , but occasionally several more are OK with a microphone yelling it!

Moved them all collected

 Saw Love is no right or wrong, just love in different ways. Sentimental
only in the age, the burden of each other can not wait too much expectations.

novel's misty married to a big boy grow up, with dreams of youth to the United States.
sweet memories of youth, but also heavy. When they met ten years later is already Face minds, eager to see each other again in attempting to mask his share of hard throbbing.
people can love many times, but love wine, you have only a cup.

misty in natural correspondence to Lee wrote:

translucent winter night,
quiet submerged past and future,
so ethereal and heavy,
heart beating like a bird,
; baby footprints under India,
nowhere to place our youth.

**********************

there really is life after death? I would like to make it


one know how to fly
love birds do not understand open instantly

a silent snow melt even

window lift a corner of blue sky
random page fall into your wind
palm spring
drop of rain to the depths

gone, and I gradually got used to life without you.
love life is really so fragile it? not wait, can not withstand the temptation?

heartbreaking words:
1. one is a misty said, I worry for my father Li Ran said: I told you to Yunnan (forget the original sentence) ... ... moved
4. Zhouxiao Chang died when the phone rang at home that misty sound Daddy called
5. Zhoujiao Chang said one to the misty Tel: No one is bad, but inadvertently hurt others, I myself do not know.
6. drizzly and careen from the experimental primary school teachers to come out later cried: This seven-foot man named also really ... ...
7. Tuen live in backing the first night in the attic, misty wrote a letter to the father: never left me, now I looked out the window, to know is who I blocked that night. . before lights out then I will think of you, you still want me now? ;

even do not know my father left this world, in what way will

what exists in the world ;
I am certainly willing to believe that
say is true about the existence of the soul's

so I can at least still on your side ;
guarding my daughters
made no secular constraints do not care about the life
not work but the heart of the accompanying
You look at you listening to your

that the desire of my life has not been able to do

10. but this time my father There go a little long
Li Ran is
I know he is someone else's husband or the father might
< br> But I always feel
always feel he must be back

why they lied to me my favorite two people < br> Why do they have lied to me

teacher told me that they were all let me wait for them in the River City
but they do not come back < br> Why do you say ah
11. Zhouxiao Zhang's death, the teacher called careen, misty habits, said, , sad
12. I made a mistake, the school should fire me, you should reach out to me.
in Tibet, you and I go to bed, you should give me two thousand dollars.
I was pregnant with your child, you should marry me.
I gave birth to your child, you should, and I continue to live together.
I'm nice to you, you should repay me.
From now on, I do not want you to be out. You're not me, never been.
so I should leave you, should let you go. You go. With Mimi, I do not want to see you then on, I do not want to hear any news about you.

always believed that one should be the most moving Zhou Meng said the last sentence: Go back go back go
why not say you or goodbye in fact he wants to go back after Lee also ran back in the flute and clarinet

blend of background music, such a scenario I just can not sleep. Continue to review the Think back to our youth, how placed?
that time, we do things, do not need a lot of reasons, but because we have used up the time, sway endless youth. Even if we committed a mistake, can also be used as grounds for the young, understanding and forgiveness. When we grow up, they never make mistakes as a reason not to use the young, no longer can not squander time. We can do, which is gradually away from the young and frivolous, gradually faded youth shadow. Our youth, but also can be placed?
perhaps, no need of youth placed in an appropriate time, or hidden in the heart of youth, or ashes, at his own.
However, those feelings because of blazing young, really do not need to be collection of it? Sentimental error of youth, until many years later would settle down so that people remember. As the play Li Ran said: misty at first met her fell in love, and understanding of her many years later.
ignorant we truly understand the frustration and pain then it is also in doubt age. Do not wait until the white-haired, when alone with the sky, alone lament: nowhere to place my youth.
very grateful to have such a show, I even cherish the life, cherish our loved ones love, Do not make mistakes ... ...

Men dress must know the 12 rules

 The global economic downturn to become rich and even the black symbol of luxury , so the first set of men's suit should be a melanoma surface .

2. Men 's second suit should be dark gray plain , and then the dark blue pigment surface, dark gray pinstripe , navy blue pinstripe , dark gray box .

3. pinstripe or the more obvious the better box , choose the kind that only look to see patterns of fabric.



4. European position on the lower -breasted suit and the buttons , there is a long upper body was feeling , so that shorter men should be careful to wear.

5. clothing tie button double-breasted suit with the shirt is strictly prohibited .

6. If you have a coat , it should be yellow , the second coat should be black , the third piece is the Bose 's .

8.300 yuan 600 yuan less than the life of shoes, half shoes , and 1,200 yuan may be able to wear shoes, I know.


9 If you do not wear a tie , do not fasten the shirt collar .



10. For a decent mature man who asked for the pattern on the tie if cartoon characters or animals , portrait , then certainly not with the suit.

11. gentleman who began the formal suit only in the traditional , solemn tie -style color match.

12. not in a formal , solemn occasions to wear non- black shoes , even if it is polished very decent, I do not know you will look decent .

A very good introductory article js function

 A very good introductory article
of js function: F. Permadi
Translator: Sheneyan (sub-Ukraine)
original English text: INTRODUCTION TO JavaScript Functions
Chinese translation (including examples): javascript's function
sub Ukraine Note: the function a pretty good introductory article, personal feel very classic.
Word Translation list:
function: function (Function not translated)
declare: Definition
assign : assignment, allocation
functionbody: function body (that is, the function of the content)
object: the object
property: property
unnamed: Anonymous (not translated here unnamed)
object oriented programming : surface relative phase programming
class: class (such as the back of the class data type data type class I translate)
pointer: pointer
reassign: redistribution
nest: nest
feature: functions, features
local / global: local / global
blueprint: Blueprint (?)
user defined: user-defined
instance: instance
prototype: prototype (in addition to the title is not translated)
internal: Internal
constructor: constructor
duplication:
function: Definition
following these methods can define a function. All of these are effective, but how they are implemented in the background there are some differences.

wording used by the general wording of all to define a function:
functionName ([parameters]) {functionBody};
Example D1:
CODE: < br> function add (a, b)
{
return a + b;
}
alert (add (1,2)); / / results 3
when we define the function so when the content is compiled function (but not immediately, unless we go to call it). And, maybe you do not know, when this function is created when the object has the same name was created. For our example , we now have an object called
Example D2
var add = function (a, b)
{
return a + b;
}
alert (add (1,2)); / / Result 3
this code and the previous example to do the same thing. Maybe the syntax looks strange, but it should also make you feel the function is an object, and we just for the right to assign a name. it can be as and var myVar = [1,2,3] the same statement. In this way the contents of the same declared function will be compiled.
When we assign such a function, we do not always require to be anonymous function. Here, I have made and ExampleD2 the same thing, but I added a function name var add = function theAdd (a, b)
{
return a + b;
}
alert (add (1,2)); / / results 3
alert (theAdd ( 1,2)); / / result is 3
use this way to define functions in object-oriented programming is useful, because we can be like under such a function into an object so that the attributes.
var myObject = new Object ();
myObject.add = function (a, b) {return a + b};
/ / myObject is now called > / / and I can use it like this
myObject.add (1, 2);
we are able to use the new operator to define a function. This is a most unusual way and defined functions This approach is not recommended unless there are special reasons (possible reasons see below). syntax is as follows:
varName = new Function ([param1Name, param2Name, ... paramNName], functionBody);
Example D3 :
var add = new Function (> I am here with two parameters called a and b, while the body of the function to return a and b, and. Please note that new Function (...) use capital F, not lower-case f. This means that in javascript, we will create One type is a Function object. should note that the parameter name and the function body are being passed as a string. we can do anything to increase the parameter, javascript function that experience is a right parenthesis before the last string (if no parameters You can only write the function body). You do not need to write everything in a single line (use or use string concatenation operator + to separate the length code). mark next line tells JavaScript to find the rest of the string. examples are :
Example D4
var add = new Function (+ a + 'and' + b); / / and
defined function in this way did not cause the function to be compiled, and it may be defined by other means than the slower function. As for why, look at this code:
Example D5
function createMyFunction (myOperator)
{
return new Function (createMyFunction (create function ; plus results = > alert (passing different parameters to create a new Function. because the compiler can not know the final code would look like, so new Function (...) content will not be compiled. that it has any good? ah, give a example, if you need users to create their own functions, when this feature might be useful, for example in the game. We may need to allow users to add , we should avoid using this form, unless there is a special purpose.
function: object
javascript function is in a special form of object. It is the first [b〕 class data type (class data type). This means that we can give it increases the property. Here are some interesting point to note:
object creation
as mentioned earlier, when we define a function, javascript is actually background to create an object for you. The name of the object is the function name itself. the object is of type function. In the following example, we may not realize it, but we actually have created an object: it is called Ball.
Example 1
function Ball () / / may seem odd, but this statement
{/ / create an object named Ball
i = 1;
} < br> alert (typeof Ball); / / results content.
property adding
we can add to the Object to add properties, including the object function. because the real definition of a function is to create an object. we can This defines the function Ball, and add the property callsign.
function Ball () / / may seem odd, but this statement
{/ / create an object called Ball, and you can
} / / reference to it or to it like the following to increase property
Ball.callsign = br> because the function is a pointer
object, we can assign a pointer to a function. the following example, the variable ptr points to the object myFunction.
function myFunction (message)
{
alert (message) ;
}
var ptr = myFunction; / / ptr points to myFunction
ptr (as if the function name has been replaced as the pointer name. So in the above, the line ptr (in object-oriented programming is useful. For example: when we have more than one object point to the same function when the (following):
Example 4A
function sayName (name)
{
alert (name );
}
var object1 = new Object (); / / create three objects
var object2 = new Object ();
var object3 = new Object ();
object1. sayMyName = sayName; / / this function is assigned to all objects
object2.sayMyName = sayName;
object3.sayMyName = sayName;
object1.sayMyName (;
object2.sayMyName (rather than the function itself), when we change the function object itself, all point to that function pointer will change. We can see at the bottom:
Example 5:
function myFunction ()
{< br> alert (myFunction.message);
}
myFunction.message = points to myFunction
ptr1 (); / / output I / O pointer to it. In the next example, I would change myfunction () content.
Example 6:
function myFunction ()
{
alert (
myFunction (); / / output I / O function myFunction ()
{
alert (New there will be no effect, because it created another function called myFunctionPtr not modify it.
Example 6B:
function myFunction ()
{
alert (>}
var savedFunc = myFunction;
savedFunc = function ()
{
alert (Old in it, I have another function called calculate.
Example 7
function getHalfOf (num1, num2, num3)
{
function calculate (number)
{
return number / 2;
}
var result => result + = calculate (num3);
}
var resultString = getHalfOf (10,20,30);
alert (resultString); / / outputs nested inside a function call. That is, you can not do call: getHalfOf.calculate (10), because only when the external function calculate (getHalfOf ()) will be present at run time. This is consistent with our previous discussion ( function will be compiled, but only when you go to when it will be called the Executive).
which function call?
you may be thinking naming conflict. For example, calculate the following function which is called will be called ?
Example 8
function calculate (number)
{
return number / 3;
}
function getHalfOf (num1, num2, num3)
{
function calculate (number)
{
return number / 2;
}
var result == calculate (num2) + output calculate the function using the global.
function: Data types and constructor function
Let us look at another special feature - which makes it different from other object types. a function can be used as a a blueprint data types. This feature is commonly used in object-oriented programming to simulate user-defined data types (user defined data type). using user-defined data types to create objects often referred to as user-defined objects (user defined object ).

data type defines a function in, we also created a new data type. This data type can be used to create a new object. The following example, I created a new named Ball data type.
Example DT1
function Ball ()
{
}
var ball0 = new Ball (); / / ball0 now point to a new object
alert (ball0); / / output performs Ball (), and pass the reference ball0 (for the calling object). Here, you'll see this message: Example DT2
function Ball (message)
{
alert (message);
}
var ball0 = new Ball (
ball0.name = Section 6 of the code is the bottom line of code as a short 6-8 line:
function Ball (message)
{
alert (message);
}
var ball0 = new Object ();
ball0.construct = Ball;
ball0.construct (name = the meaning of the line and then review it back then Example 4. Note: You may consider direct run ball0.Ball (;...created. we can create later add properties to this object (like I did above, add the attribute name. The next question is, if we create another instance of this object, we have once again like the following to the new object to add this property.)
Example DT3 (creates 3 ball objects)
function Ball ()
{
}
var ball0 = new Ball (); / / ball0 now points to the type of Ball, a new instance of the
ball0.name = ball-1 ball-1 cause problems. what a good way to automatically increase the attributes? ah, there is a: Use this keyword. this function in the word has a special significance. It points to the object that calls the function. Let us look at the following alternative an example, this time we add on the constructor of these attributes:
Example DT4
function Ball (message, specifiedName)
{
alert (message);
this.name = specifiedName ;
}
var ball0 = new Ball (Remember: a new keyword ultimately make the constructor is executed. In this case, it will run the Ball (Therefore, this line: this.name = specifiedName into ball0.name = a name attribute to the ball0, the previous example looks very much like doing, but it is a more scalable way better. Now, we can do anything to create a lot of ball with the property without our manual add them. Moreover, people also want to create the Ball object can clearly understand its constructor and can easily find all the properties Ball. Let us add more attributes to the Ball Lane.
Example DT5
function Ball (color, specifiedName, owner, weight)
{
this.name = specifiedName;
this.color = color;
this.owner = owner;
this.weight = weigth;
}
var ball0 = new Ball (Bowling Ball ; red Balloon .

the object assigned to the property are limited to only add that we did not shaped like a string or a number of simple data types like a property. We can also assign attributes to objects. Here, supervisor is Employee's a property.
Example DT6
function Employee (name, salary, mySupervisor)
{
this.name = name;
this.salary = salary;
this.supervisor = mySupervisor ;
}
var boss = new Employee (is an object.

will function as the property of any type of object can be used as a property, recall the previous Example 4 (not Example DT4), the function is also an object. so you can make a function as an object a property. Now, I will add two functions getSalary and addSalary.
Example DT7
function Employee (name, salary)
{
this.name = name;
this.salary = salary;
this.addSalary = addSalaryFunction;
this.getSalary = function ()
{
return this.salary;
};
}
function addSalaryFunction (addition )
{
this.salary = this.salary + addition;
}
var boss = new Employee (/ boss long 10K hh Why pay wages can grow so much the boss: '(
alert (boss.getSalary ()); / / output 210Khh why the default wages are so high hh:' (
addSalary and getSalary Demo assign the function of several properties ...

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1, I was a high school teachers, family rural areas, poor 03 years and one urban-rural married female colleagues. then I study section, is now teaching at a university in central, wages in general, his son is 3 years old. my wife said I did not use all day (salary not too high), look down on my family. her home in the urban fringe, the family better condition than my family, but her brother did not rely on parents to support the work, now let her family take care of his son, I gave her 40,000 yuan a year. in the first half I mother was ill, I find her to be 10,000, she said no. I am so angry that she is not someone outside (we have 4 years no sex life). You say I should not leave, leave it, the child is too small; not leave , asexual life is not made too! how can I do?
let's reverse your list of things to be refuted it: good conditions for her family, she wants to look down on how your family mm think highly of you family? sure you when you get married home is no money to give, and you are Mothers with children in helping with, your home can not help you at all times, how high you want to see your wife home? you give her a 4 million a year, to 10,000 to She refused medical treatment your mother she does not give money mm was her fault, we just say that your point of view Do you support, child support is not that you? and your wife holds all the money is squandered her own or her parents gave her up? do not think that pay wages to the wronged wife, as a man you have a responsibility to support the family. Also, she because your home has views and stingy, do not treat money to your mother, you are someone outside the mm framed her green hat looks good are you, have their own efforts to grab one? you are the divorce, asexual heartless, can not communicate Why not divorce, but do not take a child to say something, hit a small child at home in grandma, you only have support payments and did not dig too mind fee, you do not have your child day are similar, in terms of children and child mothers You just take the money home a symbol full of complaints only.
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2, derailed because her husband divorced. husband moves out of the house was left to me. The thought of halcyon days, can be divorced January, the primary three phone calls to talk with me and said her ex-husband. talk to her ex-husband is not out, is not divorced, said she already knew we were divorced (she went to check in). I did not care for her, the phone hung up, she also desperately hit. I then told her ex-husband called her harassment of me, immediately called her husband, said she was harassed again if I break her legs. Later I learned from her ex-husband to know his mouth, that Primary Three He called the threat of other men followed him, small and my ex-husband of three information, phone lists and passwords are transferred out. Primary Three really means much, really terrible, I was a little worried about her ex-husband. Why is this little third, so to destroy my family, attitudes, hard-line than I really do not know which will be done anything after primary three.
Buyiburao three reasons for divorce though nothing less than a man but you would not marry her, she vent their anger on you. You men represent a large group of men because the idea of derailment divorce: a woman can do, can not easily divorce; the event of divorce, remarriage is not easy to avoid being stuck with another woman, affected his free fucks freedom.
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3, a sophomore girl and I love, love each other well, but was strongly opposed to their parents. My girlfriend and I made this thing some complaints, she This few days and out on me, the parents kept urging me to get married there, I particularly stress, and sometimes want to find someone casually got married in order to complete the task of parents to me. I was 83 years, came to Beijing to work 3 years, is now the manager. I was caught in the middle, in front of a few did not talk about feelings, parents felt I should find a stable job, spend some time will be able to get married, I am in pain, helpless, feeling no I understand a person.
this sophomore girl, what would happen later, just can not predict, you father and mother told you to instantly find the basic shape of marriage, but also for your future chick holding was not subject to nose, or delay the best time of your spouse. But in Beijing, a man even 36,46 years old, as long as no shortage of arms and legs are not missing, nor shall they grieve wives. Beijing's left more than a woman is called, ah, over and over are is that your father and mother's worry completely unnecessary, as long as you do not return to the small town life, you are in Beijing where a woman is getting valuable, therefore, for the time being, and a small girl to the bar, you have to tell you father and mother broke up, but now can not find a suitable object, fate had other friends.
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4, My boyfriend and I with the basic 2 years, until nice and harmony, two months ago he suddenly frigid, he themselves did not feel that there is no interest in, the basic frequency to once a month. In fact, I do not blame him, that he might be pressure of work, wanted to give him space. But recently I found that he often slept even after watching adult movies, to the middle of the night went to bed, does not look like did not feel ah. Will Soon Miss, he is not just for me did not feel anything hh
sleep for a long time, it will sleep paralysis. but that does not paralysis to January only one demand. more likely is that you do not have sex drive he had, and my heart with the shadow of the other women, and you break up and can not, can only go on the adult film he has in mind the obscenity.
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5, 29 men and 33 women, two years ago and working knowledge of each other have a good impression at that time, not that. female executive, male executives, general manager, different company. After the women take the initiative to show that the mind, man accepted. for two different places, usually telephone contact, relations are stable sweet. not ML. to maintain six months of this year the Chinese New Year does not pick between the men and women suddenly phone, sensitive woman, asked to identify a relationship. man has not been back, there have been several messages during the between, there is still concern on the women love, but did not meet nor talk. since the Cold War. cold 2,3 M that can be dated to the women when to buy suites, see the woman did not say anything, and said that you wait for me for two years. nan Women are loved, but why would not determine the relationship? how he was going on in the end, there are other women or do not want to get married? women very painful, because of paying too much, go to the city looking for him he ask you?
his basic is married, and it married on in and around Hi. buy recommendation, but wanted to let you promoted to mistress. Do not go looking for him he asked the city to give their own dignity and leave it, man You can pay any attention to a few months, more excuses can only be a motive: he has someone else, do not love you. what is waiting for him to 2,3 years, some women and other men of first-class N-2,3, and finally, etc. Huanglian Po did not come into such a man, also missed the other men, you want that right?
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6, I 30, get permanent residence in Japan has a visa. computer no problem in Japanese , want to do the work of clerks and the like, but is the adult education college, feel that education is not good, Nabuchushou. Although there was introduced into the Japanese company the opportunity to clerk, but I'm afraid of the future when looking for work again, then Age is also large, and education and Nabuchushou, in a highly competitive society can find a job? I do not want the older the more worthless. consult Shun Shun, I need to read in Japanese university? university benefit is Japan has a diploma, looking for work, more competitive. can be more systematic study of Japanese, more in-depth exposure to the Japanese to understand Japanese society, learn a lot of things that can not learn from books. drawback is to spend 4 years ( all 34 had graduated). This 4 years will not have time to work to earn money. tuition total of 30 million yuan, is my savings a few years, through college my deposit will be cleared.
Japanese society I do not know, can China society, I know, although diploma will come in handy in many cases, but as long as you work well, professional deep, the boss will not fall because of academic qualifications to open a good tool to make money. reading should be the idle rich or the state was dependent carried out, you 30, and living the most important thing, think of a better way to gain a firm foothold it.
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7, there is a communication boyfriend for nearly three years, we are all a family man, the two family relations are very good. each other do not want other families can not be destroyed, so secretly wanted to go well. To prevent accidents, we have only a contact QQ. he and I have two numbers, a dedicated, the other is displayed to the others to see. but found him on another Q, I'll awkward, I felt important in his mind. He felt that I was not happy. recently discovered there are other numbers, angry! He explained that in order not to so I'm not happy, re-apply for the number and said I loved him breathless. this happens three times, starting two are fine. He explained that there are other numbers that I'm not online when no one He must speak. I found that once again another number he really could not understand him! now found him the first, sneak him, not on the increase. doubt that he and other women better. wanted to leave, but I do not know exactly why he wanted to find out how it was he, if you really half-hearted, I go without looking back!
you still leave it and never looking back. he can and you have a specific number, while others will be able to a dedicated number. you are his partner, not his wife, Mind your own business is not too wide, but also to see good relations between the two copies, you do not steal it, or do not concentrate on the root side of the grass nest, and so he You know my wife mad man, but also go to sleep.
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8, I have my one year old little brother, youth, made a detour, it has not grow, and the parents live, all day idle. to help him find off work, they do not long, or that tired or too little income, household spending not care. sister-in-trouble with him before, useless, no matter now, as long as he was on time and pick up the child. He borrowed some money every year with relatives (should have also had), or get my parents money. He opened his mouth to me to take off, the number of thousands, and never has, although my husband did not say anything, but my heart how much have the idea. I think her parents do not live up to expectations . Recently he began again to borrow money, in fact, we have the mortgage and not rich, but the younger brother does not matter, or to him. My parents do not live in their own relationship with the father-son relationship more tense, my mother told me that her in-laws his father is not the father is not around to tell his son all the, let me lose face in her husband's family especially. I especially admire those who her family unity and harmony of the person, and I did not. Soon, how can I deal with her parents?
in life, sharing on this maiden, in addition to tolerance to continue to help them, you have no way. However, you can properly face the cold, not responsive, but to find a way less and you called your mother and from her in-laws. You can solemnly declare his attitude: his brother I do not borrow money to you, because you already have a wife with children, you must take your own responsibility; father and mother, and you do not go out to utter swear again, and this will only lose me, my who lost big hair, and I can not mix in front, and then you can only rely on your old-age son was.
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9, her husband 7 years younger than me, when he talks to me and have been married On married his girlfriend, and now we love, married 3 years 4 years with a 2-year-old child. but his young age to deal with things is always very mature and have a strong Oedipus complex, plus I'm pregnant, have children, We there have been many contradictions. I think he no sense of responsibility, he thinks I told him well, did not care. because he was seriously ill when a child is born, to take care of his children until the age of 2 raised by the grandmother, and we therefore separated, and he therefore resentment. is he having an affair colleagues, contact with a lot of work and is a married woman, not sterile. he became fascinated by her dependence on him and worship, to live a simple life with her. things exposed, feel that they common trap to play down the matter, so that sub-harmonic grounds for divorce to become husband and wife. to ask Soon: want to forgive him once, after all, this was his first mistake, I do not know what to do? I do not need another husband and wife living with him ? (they have sex) I'm in the process how to protect yourself?
male female cow eating the tender grass, have this outcome is normal. you can forgive him, because people may temporarily possessed by the devil; but you have to know, even if the derailment of a divorce as long as he insisted, the court will put away; now they are in dire straits, you want to have sex with him, and he will give you your big order, and the other, but also expect to hold back tied him with sex, what you have , but also his lover, and certainly more exciting than you, He must restore the sex life with you, the mind will come back; currently the best way to protect yourself is to clean up the RBI valuables, try to do too much at the time of divorce Orimoto.
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10, I'm 25, and her boyfriend two years ago to give higher salaries (now 32) converge, in early engagement. is the work of leisure uncertain future annual income of 30,000, in addition to the parents to send 1 million, the rest are is used in conjunction with the two, I pay consumption, he kept the money to buy a house (I had insisted on pre-marital AA, his circle of friends are so helpless and had to support him, so he was strong. He has not changed over the past two years, still do not know so long, What is a woman does not necessarily blindly pay the uses of adversity. although he make progress, love of family labor of love..) deposits now only 1.5 million (his name), about 2 million commission shall be by the end of hair. He gave the students and fellow has been 5 years in sales, in addition to the boss skyrocketed, he is still struggling in poverty. He did a lucrative industry, low commission, and treat consumption and other telephone charges are not reimbursed, barely enough to spend his money. I propose own agency, earn more, agents advised him friends, but he can not hurt brotherhood refused.
5.1 this year to upgrade myself, I would like to report training, to be six thousand, he did not agree, the first that worried about my impulse to buy a house later changed to the current target. but he was driving to buy a notebook for business school clothes for mobile home, I very readily support. I think his heart without me, angry that 15,000 deposit required to open points out. through the Cold War or even making a huge fight broke up, he is still unmoved. A few days ago he broke open the deposit only give me three thousand, I am in tears. I have decided to return to the beginning. He and I belong to the same province, the provincial capital price is not high, my salary for the month also slightly more than enough. I also hope he can go back together, do agents that he did not agree. Shun Shun, who in the end is the kind of person? we continue? had to tell him convergence, I have hundreds of thousands of cheating parents, his hands down payment and the income is not low enough, I was not Fanjian ah, pumping me.
say too late to three years when the surplus value to the capitalist exploitation of it, stop quickly, hurry home, to find work and to have surplus real smart man, three-year-old before or can see you want a stable life. Do not worry about how their parents had it off, you just go back early, do not As for the transmission to the extremely harsh, they are happy.
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11, Busan, South Korea to study 3 years, two boys in South Korea under the care of a life. feeling good, when he defects are alone, and But the holiday to Seoul to live with the process, I burn, and he did not excuse the above classes to take me to the hospital, I arrived in Seoul, the poor, even the hospitals do not know where to look for dragging his leg. feelings look cool, and then quarrel and then fight, he identified that he did not look pleasing to the eye of the boss, why knocked the day off? and I am not a fool who never biting, arguing that no good to fly home to recuperate the. back After the anger is not so big house, but recall how he is Disadvantages: short stature, work in general, emotional level down to reality, no warmth of the veil, it is against but also resentment. If you do not burn will be able to go to get married? His family is his money that rich? working parents to spend the money before he very generous to me, after working all of a sudden mean, and birthday gifts are not given lightly as before, is not easy to make money or he felt he was like the fish hook the bait was not?
easy to get along I know that love is difficult, 2-year fate, unwilling to give up, but his past stem is the less. I 26, the master's degree right hand, why did I marry a good family him? had his greatest advantage is that meticulous care of me, and now this advantage is gone, he saw only a very short, it is not to do such faults. not to mention their parents marry he would discard thousands of miles, it is what courage? see leg scars, I can not say what I have courage.
Korea then a small place, employment opportunities and good men are not more than domestic. As long as China can be a satisfactory positions, they do not go out, While the world, is indeed living the same way: every breath, we must work, have dinner, have sex.
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13, I am 32 years old, 2 half years ago, married a German husband, a very good relationship. moved to Germany that everything is simple, the first school in the German language, and then find a job using the language advantage. but really difficult to find a job here. This year I learned more than two years language, degree of good, free for a year at home because he did not get mm work. No plans to the baby, her husband want me to adapt to German society, to run around looking for their own time to talk with the baby (he was busy at work) The best way is to first work, so have the opportunity to communicate with people and improve myself. can the current economic crisis, can not achieve this expectation. Now I was admitted State University, I would like to learn something, then there may be better jobs. However, a 4-year college, 4 years later I have 36, and not too old to have children is the point? not looking for work, and read what university do?
my husband of 10 years old. In fact I quite contradictory attitude of the child, want to, say mixed baby beautiful, but not afraid of their own raising mm I grew up in unhappy families, psychological shadow. but not to have children, missed the age, perhaps a lifetime of regret. see marrying other girls came to life, how no me so much trouble? along, how to balance my children to school work? Furthermore, in order to find a job to go on a 4 year college, worth it?
you and 6, the same is, we all want to get better by reading the work of research opportunities; you and her different is that she needs to study his own pocket, you study funded by your man, so I'm support you to study. and reading As can support a child during that time to find a nanny or domestic relatives and friends to help you, but also basic things correct it. Of course, this will be hardship, and you can not suffer mm things first do not want to have a child.
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attend if you can not accept the reality of busy people, You substitutions. If you want to change themselves to meet him, then from when he was just a boyfriend, not a talking to or playing companion, and when anything not expect him to share with you just me busy man mm as to tell you, no matter how busy busy man, but also on their loved one is very concerned about, unless the non-essential people, it would not want to break up, you do not want to waste the effort.
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15 , matchmaking network knowledge with the province's twenty-year-old male different city, a short history of marriage, and I sincerely want to develop, let me go to his city to meet, and bring my mother, saying that what he was in possession toll. He and parents live, Shun sister you said I like this situation, and his development? I can go to different places, and he and his parents to live with it? My mother is a person. I go or should not see this face? I No work of this city, who led the grass but did not permit the ceremony to leave. I also older, where to go?
you anyway, now do not work, take your mother to his travel trip, find near his home a short rent, much longer time, do not sleep with him, more contact with more understanding, to see him and his family, then decided to take his mother not to marry in the past.
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16, we home, love, he loves me far more than I love him, I fell ill, he would take me to the hospital, doctors now to hear my name will say will buy lunch for me, always gave me a gift, to chat with me, regardless of where he will be a business trip to tell me ahead of time. He said I was his favorite women, 90% of the love he gave me, and he wants us to have One day can really together, even after a very, very old. The two sides do not want to hurt the family, I know he said they do this is sincere. He saw my LG loves me, I care, he said he was happy, because someone in his life to take care of for me. and I saw him with LP, even if they did not do, will be very jealous, jealous they have many things in common. festivals, and his business, he would LP I bought him a gift, although my gift is better than his LP, but I'm still jealous.
He said he was only responsible, but I often do blame him, blame him not me, not specificity. is not too overbearing I was too selfish, and have psychological problems? gender difference or because we, men and women's views on love is different in this? why he received such a generous view and my family, and I was can not accept him? this very tangled, and often find him and his troubles. wisdom of following along, please help me.
will sooner or later he dumped you, because you are bragging, but I do not know his real needs. Also, do not take this affair to-hyun, the kind of public hospitals, the best little bar appear together.
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17, married 3 years, two children. just like her husband before marriage reached a consensus with the elderly live in separate . but no less with her husband after marriage fight for the mother. nagging mother nature committed twist, divorce, particularly dependent son. I have always been very independent and accustomed to democracy and freedom, both big and small do not like her mother commented Sui Suinian, less trouble Bother! now her every Friday night to my house for 3 months, her husband usually very busy weekend for me is a precious family time together, her mother in, feeling awkward. Sometimes I feel like an outsider. mother never do do not ask for my advice, skip my husband to communicate directly. I do not thirty-eight, she asked what I have, however, I am very unhappy but she felt not being respected.
marriage has always been my household, but her mother tried to integrate into our house, almost pathological. First she have time to fuss, while stomach pain while leg pain, and fully control my husband's compassion, coupled with her love life will not ring true that her husband, the poor, even thought I Rational also partial to his mother, almost indiscriminate white! even though her mother is not in my house, but also for fear of being eliminated, to telephone remote control my home, what should be asked, what want in! She always ways to consolidate her in my house position. Shun Shun, I do not want to be manipulated, do not want people I care about my family tube baby, do not want to hurt the feelings of the couple because she does not like to listen to nagging, I'm disgusted me crazy, how do?!
treatment of the manipulative and the nosy people who are particularly addictive, and only fire with fire: She covered the family do not want to, not like she was all up CD, so yeah, we have around the house to give her baby to a man got on, we go Travel we go shopping we go to socialize, seven days a week from our house to ask her to do Explorer. wait on her son and her grandson, the total should not complain about it, we do not have her serve, we flash out, told her to brandish the house carefully. Since the seat so popular female dispensers, dispensers, let her do better. so tiring her lying, Leibing, and will not dare to come. Of course, this move Bacheng to offend you man, so you want to talk about with men clear: In order to control the desire to meet your mother, I am going to have the whole family to her, I was going to work, enjoy a good life gone, you do not have opinions Oh, this is what your mother filial piety. mm bear children sets live that Han, if you do not cruel, you should always gratifying.
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18, my boyfriend and I sometimes get down to business, said of his wrong, he will not pulled my other place to . I say we say one thing, now that you, your finished first again for me. He said yes, but he went on to say, there would repeat that I am old. I was depressed, such a man is how is it? see him very intelligent, also quite understand truth, and how their own fault can not admit it? says he right when I have to not have to pulled to suppress me? In fact, he told me just fine, but also quite got the idea, smart people make progress.
without him, the man a buck only.
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19, female 29, her boyfriend of 31, he looks more handsome, decent work a good family, is I good friend and colleague's ex-boyfriend, because I led them to break up the relationship, friends and our break, so far reluctant understanding. our relations over the past year, several times during the shifting alliances, many times I have determined because of grievances with the his broken, probably give up giving up because of a break is often a call to continue his struggle. with his contacts tiring, I'm not sure if he really love me? If you love, why do I always feel that he was aloof, not good enough , so I do not have a sense of security, communication has never give me any promises about the future, although I surface does not matter, but my heart is anxious and would like to hurry up and marry him; does not love, with me sometimes is quite good, and not willing to completely let go of. In fact, there are other conditions during the good men to pursue me, but I did not feel them.
boyfriend to pay a lot of girlfriends before he broke up with another reason for my friend , he said he did not want to get married so early, like N years later on the marriage. I do not know that was his excuse or real ideas, or just the idea he had, now have to change? help my analysis of his attitude it! I Does this continue to be with him a delay? my side of the fear of wasted youth, while they think will stick for the end, after all, he has gone through a lot, age is not small.
corner pry friend and colleague to prove You bad enough in principle, so you can not correctly judge the man and feelings. He may in the future you got married, but a woman spoiled by a man, even if her husband can do to give you any good? your colleague and good Friends of the more lucky than you, she can not bother to get rid of early practical man, you are more stupid, stupid people eventually become a great possibility Jour, I'm waiting for you after six months or even cry three to five years .
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20, Female 23, awareness of a soldier a year, and basically fall in love, always telephone and online and has been good. This year I graduated from college, I do not know why he mentioned breaking up, I do not understand, is it my problem to find a job? or too far away? he in the west, since I do not know whether the back, I said, willing to wait for him. until fine. broke up he found a place near his girlfriend, is also separated far. I do not understand, the military will lie? I am very upset, was very upset, because I'm serious, I can not leave him, although I often tell myself, have passed, but I always involuntarily Looking back the past. how can I do? I do not want to destroy them, but who knows my pain, who can help me to forget the past?
he put you, give you a wide road to go, or else really consumed with him go to the West to do business you either hopeless Junsao, or separated into two tired mother. Sooner or later you will be grateful to him abandoned, really, you can have a better life for you and a better future. the other, what people may lie, the military a career, not a moral proof.
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21, smooth, and you then how bringing up two children? I mother, and tired, but also fun! tired catch mad, Xiangtiao Lou; hi envy you the time, once had two treasure. human life is so circuitous degree steps. suddenly want to write to you, hope you are happy, very smart, very beautiful. I hope you happy listening Everyone complaining.
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 Yesterday morning, taking her daughter to kindergarten, her daughter still alive and kicking, happily, but to the semi-noon, the kindergarten teacher called me and said she conservation discomfort, and vomiting. We analyzed the reasons for that too cold milk for breakfast. The teacher said conservation can eat to help digestion and give the medicine, and then use hot water bottle stomach.
phone after, has been uneasy, and indeed the afternoon head teacher has called and said the nap to sleep, out of a sweat, the spirit of a little better. I was worried, and colleagues said, my colleagues insisted that I bring her to go home early. I went to bring her home in the nursery. She saw me, he has been arguing with the head halo. I Momo Tou, less heat, take her directly home.
home, ate a little cold medicine, she went to sleep. could have been not sleep, total wake up, sleep around more than a hours, a lot of spirit, when the Asian Games basketball final when live, but also ask to see the game. dinner, eat a lot, thinking that this good, who knows more than 10 o'clock at night, but also initiated hot, a temperature measurement , more than 39 degrees, and quickly cooling particularly good to eat another drug (which was previously a doctor, the doctor prescription). In the past, one to eat the drug, the body temperature down quickly, but this time, a at body temperature is always maintained at 39 degrees and more, her daughter has been said that dizziness, I do not know why her mother? can only use physical cooling method, put a wet towel over his head, and continue to give her water. daughter good times and bad, the body temperature has been no drop!
did not know what, it should be almost dawn, and her mother a look at the bottle, only to find her daughter eating the medicine to treat , she complained why I bought the wrong medicine, says that there is a medicine, mainly two main functions. this medicine are not prescription drugs, most people if not used, how to divide so clearly, this is not it harm you?
I went to the medicine cabinet to find, and discovered that there really is another similar kinds of functional medicine, rushed to her daughter to eat, and the short time, the temperature to drop down. We are all deeply regret the two and why it is so careless? really can not forgive, her daughter suffered the torment of the night! < br> The two drugs look the same, only attending the function at the different, you're really harm the.