I think the S SAMA once in my life, a big wonderful,
because she not only looks beautiful, but also among their peers is extremely rare perseverance and a clear brain. Or at least I think so.
me, often see a beautiful woman Yun Cai, continued for a moment of time. From High School to the freshman.
bedroom on the ground and the others went to cotton, beautiful little face like the touch hands, to the beautiful birthday, always the most expensive, and so on, is often described as killed by random stick
be honest, I was a guy very attractive people, especially women, and even the development of the non-beautiful female friends do not pay,
because subconsciously, I was the default character of a pretty woman more noble heart will be more kind, so you can have the privilege, and we will be happy or should be holding them. (Of course, reality is not so.)
This problem, is a judge of a thing, the brain is not logical investigation, but according to the tens of thousands of years of evolution come engraved in the history of gene experience drawn hasty conclusions, a creature may all have, which is almost genetically determined,
example, we see a flower grow more symmetrical feel more beautiful; man to see hip ratio 0.7 The young woman would be mad to on; or a lot of people because a nice person to be confused for each other sound good spoken English, and so on, I can cite examples of ten thousand.
rational thinking people know that we have to control their own brain, rather than being controlled, as careful, we will be tens of thousands of years ago, their evolution led by the nose to the brain, br>
example, hurt the feeling of romance, one begins can not be avoided, it is our emotional direct response programs,
but soon after (probably a few hours or a few seconds minutes), we can determine their own want to have a hole in the victim's situation continued the (feeling of hurt is completely controlled by us, depending on how you happen to control the brain to deal with the facts, and facts has nothing to do); can not do a lot of people, they always wait for them to die in pain, unable to control their own brain, but the inertia of thinking completely to the control brain.
judge by appearances, it is actually a similar example. This is a common problem around the world.
judge a book by my reaction in my understanding of the good.
early days, I subconsciously think a woman looks good as long as the rise is the outstanding ability to work a little,
but I found I was wrong, the real world is not supposed to work,
you value a company creates and wisdom of your brain by the high degree of decision, life is, looks too easy to change, make-up cosmetic omnipotent,UGG shoes, like how to change to how they change, but a person way of thinking can not be disguised, this is the best engine and the source of power.
and, more importantly, really good people will not judge a book by way of thinking.
So I changed the definition of good came out and decided to give their own patch this vulnerability of thinking, to help them better understand the world objectively.
hope that I write you this small example can help:
S SAMA I have always felt very good because she was pretty ordinary and there is no determination:
- Every day 6:30 get up, go to the playground lap; to 10:30 daily study hall dormitory, 11:00 lights out to sleep
COMMENTS: S SAMA's hard hard, that powerful spiritual force and Perseverance is all very awe students, so the first year in college, S SAMA did not get a scholarship thing is we are as confused for a while. But S SAMA soon catch up after four years in college, has been maintained at not shake the NO.1 position.
- 7 feet in order to maintain a delicate figure and rosy skin, eat donkey-hide gelatin, eat pollen, honey drink, eat vitamin pills, eating turtle, eating snake powder, eating wild boar, a week of basic eat a ton of rice
COMMENTS: S SAMA again show that the maintenance of its amazing stamina and mobility.
- never as someone else's provocative words or supermarket to buy a discount to send two activities shaken, only / buy, or only do / buy what they think of things.
COMMENTS: Many girls love because they are cheap, easy to be deceived by the rhetoric of others / softening phenomena in S SAMA who completely does not exist. In any matter, S SAMA gas field is so strong, firm and unwavering.
this, I have always felt that S SAMA is an unusual, non-ordinary talent.
Then, once the image of me and my eyes were a stalwart of the S SAMA a debate on marriage,
S want to marry a rich man in the idea of 30 makes me feel weird, I feel, and S SAMA has been stalwart in my mind the image does not match,
S SAMA rely on other people's thinking this, and my style of self-reliance is contrary to the understanding of the excellent, but I difficult to reverse S SAMA is not a good person, because she was too strong willpower, not ordinary people, some ah ~ how to do?
So I help the fox (in blue part of her back), and the S SAMA me to write out the debate between, trying to find her logic loopholes to resolve my own confusion, and fox gave me a reply as a blow:
1, for example, I think thirty mm in the young man to find that disgusting, and S is that the material basis for mature men and a little more deserving of appreciation, a small boy the eyes of the kind of desire to occur, poor and distress is sad;
thirty of the men to be mature it? Twenty-year-old man still have a mature and prudent. We all think that the three-year-old man and mature imagery that itself is subjective, as we all thought that the three-year-old woman is also the same maturity, and in fact is not true. So that the three-year-old man and mature economic base must have this in itself is extreme. Most men are neither mature nor the three-year-old has not yet stable economic base. So the little boy, only there is no discussion of the economic base is the objective. Others such as mature and stable itself is no objective standard. The key lies in what she believes is a mature, what is stable, if I am mature in accordance with the standards, many of their twenties, particularly men aged over 25 still have, but, rather a lot of men 30 to 35-year-old still does not have. So if a man worthy of admiration s evaluation of the economic strength of the main criteria, then the thirties than just the work of twenty years of age there is a certain strength. However, when mature, that is bias too. China 40-year-old men are a large group of immature to see derailed male, more than 30 years of age, or 20 will know much more, can derail a man s maturity that performance? Therefore, her vulnerability lies in the development of mature standards, and her maturity standard is vague, and her opinion is based on her own standards.
2, I said that many girls do not separate the economic spirit, so there are only 30 to go through the material basis of economic man, and S that of the opposite sex like sturdy even competitive in nature is also very common , little girls like a mature man is a normal natural selection;
not representative of a mature man is sturdy and competitive groups. For men, when the strongest peak should be a time when the male hormone, it is 22 to 30 years old. More than 30-year-old male is not as good as from the natural properties of the 22-year-old male. So many little girls and mature men like a real strong man does not meet the standard. From animals on the natural attributes of the sexual function for men over 30 years of age into the competitiveness of more than 20 years of age. So this s view is that paradox. I'm afraid she is concerned that the money power, not sexuality, but rather the desire for money is not the animal's natural attributes, but the property caused by human greed. So this is not the natural choice, but people have conscious choice. Natural selection will not be because of age or be eliminated by selection. What age are strong and powerful will always be a minority. Therefore s vulnerability lies in the way of thinking, she older one of the criteria as strong, and subjective that it is natural selection of animals, this is sophistry. Terms of age, animals of natural selection is the most sexiest sex hormones, not age much. According to her theory, Zhang had less than 30 years of age, there is no work in the factory next door to their home 30 or more goof Wang mature and competitive? If the sexual nature from the animal on the run, do 25-year-old boy than the 35-year-old man, however? This is the natural choice, OK? Little girls like older men is not a normal natural choice. But in order to achieve the purposes of greed and laziness subjective choice. They should be like natural selection pretty sexy young men the same age. Why else would the old men like young women? This is a natural driver. So her argument is flawed, and her point of view can only be inferred woman in a man, can not be used by men against women, and a correct logical point of view there is no natural gender differences. Like animals and people in the choice of spouse, if the impact of removing subjective consciousness, there is no difference.
3, I think that marriage needs to be founded on the basis of mutual respect and be loyal to each other, and S believes that human nature is like a beautiful beautiful thing, and in this respect have the ability to more powerful men a woman is nothing, she is totally acceptable.
Is it only men like beautiful beautiful thing? Do women do not like it? So she accepted the best a man can have many women at the same time, is not a man she does not take into account whether a woman can accept a lot of good men? Does she consider this question without regard to equality, but wishful thinking it? So if we all think this is reasonable, then the marriage should do? Since the institution of marriage is irrational, I think the current Society is no law that everyone must get married? Why choose a marriage, does not comply with rules? Vulnerability of her thinking is that you are talking about marital fidelity, talk about a man she can have a lot of women, but she is in her marriage it? Then you can ask her why she could not also have a lot of men? Why did she choose to get married? If the results do not allow her to have a man in her loyalty, which is not to marry any difference? How do you listen to her answer. Not to grasp the vulnerability of her thoughts yet?
4, I said, as you say so, the institution of marriage laws like the U.S., improve and protect women's rights in the country, as China hand, this wretched man tried to dry out first wife purification households do not have to be any penalty slightly higher institution of marriage? S said that in fact you do not have reason to do so, after you've gone through, will know what the actual.
which she can not find your arguments to refute. You do not have experience, I'm almost 50 years of age, she has not experienced, I have experienced before. So I think you and I know she was not as good as real, that I find my actual one as big as my husband. I can not accept the marriage, infidelity, so I have 20 years of faithful marriage. I'm not the kind of woman can not live without a man, I do not rely on man's material, so I never feel old men to mature and have a competitive edge. My personal experience is my early 30s and men alike, they do not I have a competitive edge because they not as good as I matured, I have no wisdom. Than I am greedy, lazy than I am, than I am naive and ridiculous. So instead of a little girl like the old man is a natural, but silly little girls like clever than she is natural, regardless of whether the man is young or old, because she was stupid, easy to cheat. The old man because the girls have experienced a lot, so more familiar with how to cheat young girls fills with their maturity, whether good, independent of whether competitive. Does this mean that more than 30 years younger than the bubble good kind of young men and mature, good?
did not see the s to more than clever. However, a mediocre mind just go with the flow of people, so that the majority of thinking in China, right? If you do not believe you can go to End of the World to see, this idea of women filled horizon emotions. This is not a few thoughts. A thought with the flow of mediocrity in the long run, it is difficult outstanding. Because the thought of destiny. If, as you said, her ideas so firm, so the possibility of her marriage is to find a lot like cheating husband, she was right, after she experienced, she would know exactly what she is feeling the. Time will tell.
fox refutation of S SAMA cool people, but at the same time, fox is not good for the evaluation of S SAMA shocked me, do I know the way people are wrong? A firm and resolute man (I S SAMA evaluation) is it not good it? If not, what is the logical flaw I have in the end it lead to this conclusion? So I gave chase, and asked the following questions, fox also replied to me:
Q: If a man every day to jog / gym training, patterns of life (cleaning, personal cleansing, diet, etc.), two hours each day before going to bed to see professional books, and not representative of his firm and resolute, right? Because you do not know if he thought there was included in the Even if the persistent efforts of a person,Discount UGG boots, but as long as the ideological foundation of this person is not
fortitude and perseverance, what is the difference?
A: First, often refers to a position of firm principles and beliefs of the dedication. And fortitude, as I understand should be strong and have stamina.
Secondly, we see you say this s. What has she got a firm position of principle and belief it? I do not see, I only see the position she has principles and beliefs, most girls have, that is to marry a rich man. This position is firm that she was in before she did not marry a rich guy I can not judge. So I can not say that she is a strong person. If you want to Marry a Rich Man with the idea to say, and find many reasons to convince you, so to prove that she is firm, then I say, real women so firm in China too much. Is not it? You say they do not like her face the man, do not hesitate to reject a lot of girls can do this, right? Only a few people who can not do it. Many single women here still single not that they do not like to face not hesitate to decline? On the contrary, in the face they do not like, but also their interaction is a small number of grievances, right? Do you if the pursuit of the Song Shan Mu,UGG boots, stalker, you will have to accept? If you hate because he did not accept, then you are not, and you worship s the same? If you can do it, do you still worship her? Or you can not do? Song Mountain wood you will accept?
then she is indeed running every day performance and perseverance. So I am sure she is a persevering man. As for the fortitude and perseverance you say What is the difference. I want to say is just fortitude in the face of a severe blow and a setback not be defeated, and resolute on this basis is also able to continue to pursue their own objectives of this perseverance. But what you say you are the envy of her has been very smooth, not encountered any serious blow or failure, then you is how strong she is drawn to this conclusion? Every day there is no strong relationship between running and, if her legs hurt, or suffer the pain is still running every day,UGGs, it can be called fortitude.
running if she insists that she has a rational life, I agree, but you said it with her distinctive, firm and resolute far.
her conviction, not different, but in addition to independent women than men have the idea. The idea is to marry the rich different? Firm idea of the girls in China are a small number of it? I would like to present more than 80% of women in China will have such thoughts, right? If a person's thoughts and 80% of the people are the same, called different? The remaining 20% is not that the idea that how you evaluate it?
said she wants to be you can get, not failed. So how do you come to the conclusion to her fortitude it? The examples that you can only do things that she has perseverance. Is not resolute, at least you did not give her the face of a blow to the face of failure to not give up the kind of strong.
whether a person is a firm and resolute, and she has nothing to do with what is thought. Only setback on her experience. If a person has never encountered setbacks, have not experienced failure, you can not judge a person with a determination to.
I said women want to marry the rich more to go, you can say they are firm and resolute it? Also do not want to marry the rich is not necessarily a firm and resolute. Not a strong point of view, but a faith and belief. Such as saw and heard around how dark the ugly still believe that life is wonderful, no matter how many times failed love still believe in true love exists, and so, this is a belief. Adhere to this belief can be called firm.
go to the gym every day, a man can say he has the will. But the men go to the gym every day, in the face of unemployment may not be able to withstand attack. Many people go to the gym every day, once in the economic crisis, as unemployment began to alcoholism, decadent lot. Why the economic crisis is the golden age of psychiatrists? Because once people see a strong Kangbu Zhu had. So he can not say that determination. Only those who face combat, are still able to persist in pursuing their life goals of people can use to describe the determination.
so a person can be very perseverance dominated by a variety of motives. But a man of perseverance, it must be to have a strong belief in the mercy, so that he will not succumb to any failure and frustration hit. A very simple reason that, if the s finally found a rich man, and later dumped pregnant. She still took the children can hold a person to continue to marry rich. Unfortunately, no matter what, such as being wealthy deceived, sold, wealthy husband derailed, mistresses, and so to her abuse, she still insisted that the rich is to marry, she is very happy at that time, you determination can be used to describe her. Is not she want to marry rich, is not enough to explain her determination. But she has not encountered the idea of combat and frustration, when you can not know whether she will change because of combat, or setback had their own ideas, you can not give her to a conclusion with a determination, it is too early.
me that she want to marry the rich point of view, not that she does not perseverance, but you argue that you worship her, because she was different this view. Want to marry rich because this view is the view of most women, so you're right to prove that she is not really different. I do not know what you worship? Do you control caused Yen reason you can not judge a person?
Finally, fox remind me,
a person when you evaluate whether the good woman is often the true standards of excellence with thousands of miles apart. You are judge by appearances, but nothing more. However, if you want to be a good woman, I would like to remind you that some people judge by appearances is mediocre ideas.
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I think this really is a very investigation and their wonderful example of the vulnerability of thinking.
to judge a book by this point, I considered the real lesson.
persist for a person = good people this is not entirely logical way of thinking, but also gave me a profound lesson.
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