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1, I was a high school teachers, family rural areas, poor 03 years and one urban-rural married female colleagues. then I study section, is now teaching at a university in central, wages in general, his son is 3 years old. my wife said I did not use all day (salary not too high), look down on my family. her home in the urban fringe, the family better condition than my family, but her brother did not rely on parents to support the work, now let her family take care of his son, I gave her 40,000 yuan a year. in the first half I mother was ill, I find her to be 10,000, she said no. I am so angry that she is not someone outside (we have 4 years no sex life). You say I should not leave, leave it, the child is too small; not leave , asexual life is not made too! how can I do?
let's reverse your list of things to be refuted it: good conditions for her family, she wants to look down on how your family mm think highly of you family? sure you when you get married home is no money to give, and you are Mothers with children in helping with, your home can not help you at all times, how high you want to see your wife home? you give her a 4 million a year, to 10,000 to She refused medical treatment your mother she does not give money mm was her fault, we just say that your point of view Do you support, child support is not that you? and your wife holds all the money is squandered her own or her parents gave her up? do not think that pay wages to the wronged wife, as a man you have a responsibility to support the family. Also, she because your home has views and stingy, do not treat money to your mother, you are someone outside the mm framed her green hat looks good are you, have their own efforts to grab one? you are the divorce, asexual heartless, can not communicate Why not divorce, but do not take a child to say something, hit a small child at home in grandma, you only have support payments and did not dig too mind fee, you do not have your child day are similar, in terms of children and child mothers You just take the money home a symbol full of complaints only.
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2, derailed because her husband divorced. husband moves out of the house was left to me. The thought of halcyon days, can be divorced January, the primary three phone calls to talk with me and said her ex-husband. talk to her ex-husband is not out, is not divorced, said she already knew we were divorced (she went to check in). I did not care for her, the phone hung up, she also desperately hit. I then told her ex-husband called her harassment of me, immediately called her husband, said she was harassed again if I break her legs. Later I learned from her ex-husband to know his mouth, that Primary Three He called the threat of other men followed him, small and my ex-husband of three information, phone lists and passwords are transferred out. Primary Three really means much, really terrible, I was a little worried about her ex-husband. Why is this little third, so to destroy my family, attitudes, hard-line than I really do not know which will be done anything after primary three.
Buyiburao three reasons for divorce though nothing less than a man but you would not marry her, she vent their anger on you. You men represent a large group of men because the idea of derailment divorce: a woman can do, can not easily divorce; the event of divorce, remarriage is not easy to avoid being stuck with another woman, affected his free fucks freedom.
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3, a sophomore girl and I love, love each other well, but was strongly opposed to their parents. My girlfriend and I made this thing some complaints, she This few days and out on me, the parents kept urging me to get married there, I particularly stress, and sometimes want to find someone casually got married in order to complete the task of parents to me. I was 83 years, came to Beijing to work 3 years, is now the manager. I was caught in the middle, in front of a few did not talk about feelings, parents felt I should find a stable job, spend some time will be able to get married, I am in pain, helpless, feeling no I understand a person.
this sophomore girl, what would happen later, just can not predict, you father and mother told you to instantly find the basic shape of marriage, but also for your future chick holding was not subject to nose, or delay the best time of your spouse. But in Beijing, a man even 36,46 years old, as long as no shortage of arms and legs are not missing, nor shall they grieve wives. Beijing's left more than a woman is called, ah, over and over are is that your father and mother's worry completely unnecessary, as long as you do not return to the small town life, you are in Beijing where a woman is getting valuable, therefore, for the time being, and a small girl to the bar, you have to tell you father and mother broke up, but now can not find a suitable object, fate had other friends.
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4, My boyfriend and I with the basic 2 years, until nice and harmony, two months ago he suddenly frigid, he themselves did not feel that there is no interest in, the basic frequency to once a month. In fact, I do not blame him, that he might be pressure of work, wanted to give him space. But recently I found that he often slept even after watching adult movies, to the middle of the night went to bed, does not look like did not feel ah. Will Soon Miss, he is not just for me did not feel anything hh
sleep for a long time, it will sleep paralysis. but that does not paralysis to January only one demand. more likely is that you do not have sex drive he had, and my heart with the shadow of the other women, and you break up and can not, can only go on the adult film he has in mind the obscenity.
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5, 29 men and 33 women, two years ago and working knowledge of each other have a good impression at that time, not that. female executive, male executives, general manager, different company. After the women take the initiative to show that the mind, man accepted. for two different places, usually telephone contact, relations are stable sweet. not ML. to maintain six months of this year the Chinese New Year does not pick between the men and women suddenly phone, sensitive woman, asked to identify a relationship. man has not been back, there have been several messages during the between, there is still concern on the women love, but did not meet nor talk. since the Cold War. cold 2,3 M that can be dated to the women when to buy suites, see the woman did not say anything, and said that you wait for me for two years. nan Women are loved, but why would not determine the relationship? how he was going on in the end, there are other women or do not want to get married? women very painful, because of paying too much, go to the city looking for him he ask you?
his basic is married, and it married on in and around Hi. buy recommendation, but wanted to let you promoted to mistress. Do not go looking for him he asked the city to give their own dignity and leave it, man You can pay any attention to a few months, more excuses can only be a motive: he has someone else, do not love you. what is waiting for him to 2,3 years, some women and other men of first-class N-2,3, and finally, etc. Huanglian Po did not come into such a man, also missed the other men, you want that right?
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6, I 30, get permanent residence in Japan has a visa. computer no problem in Japanese , want to do the work of clerks and the like, but is the adult education college, feel that education is not good, Nabuchushou. Although there was introduced into the Japanese company the opportunity to clerk, but I'm afraid of the future when looking for work again, then Age is also large, and education and Nabuchushou, in a highly competitive society can find a job? I do not want the older the more worthless. consult Shun Shun, I need to read in Japanese university? university benefit is Japan has a diploma, looking for work, more competitive. can be more systematic study of Japanese, more in-depth exposure to the Japanese to understand Japanese society, learn a lot of things that can not learn from books. drawback is to spend 4 years ( all 34 had graduated). This 4 years will not have time to work to earn money. tuition total of 30 million yuan, is my savings a few years, through college my deposit will be cleared.
Japanese society I do not know, can China society, I know, although diploma will come in handy in many cases, but as long as you work well, professional deep, the boss will not fall because of academic qualifications to open a good tool to make money. reading should be the idle rich or the state was dependent carried out, you 30, and living the most important thing, think of a better way to gain a firm foothold it.
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7, there is a communication boyfriend for nearly three years, we are all a family man, the two family relations are very good. each other do not want other families can not be destroyed, so secretly wanted to go well. To prevent accidents, we have only a contact QQ. he and I have two numbers, a dedicated, the other is displayed to the others to see. but found him on another Q, I'll awkward, I felt important in his mind. He felt that I was not happy. recently discovered there are other numbers, angry! He explained that in order not to so I'm not happy, re-apply for the number and said I loved him breathless. this happens three times, starting two are fine. He explained that there are other numbers that I'm not online when no one He must speak. I found that once again another number he really could not understand him! now found him the first, sneak him, not on the increase. doubt that he and other women better. wanted to leave, but I do not know exactly why he wanted to find out how it was he, if you really half-hearted, I go without looking back!
you still leave it and never looking back. he can and you have a specific number, while others will be able to a dedicated number. you are his partner, not his wife, Mind your own business is not too wide, but also to see good relations between the two copies, you do not steal it, or do not concentrate on the root side of the grass nest, and so he You know my wife mad man, but also go to sleep.
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8, I have my one year old little brother, youth, made a detour, it has not grow, and the parents live, all day idle. to help him find off work, they do not long, or that tired or too little income, household spending not care. sister-in-trouble with him before, useless, no matter now, as long as he was on time and pick up the child. He borrowed some money every year with relatives (should have also had), or get my parents money. He opened his mouth to me to take off, the number of thousands, and never has, although my husband did not say anything, but my heart how much have the idea. I think her parents do not live up to expectations . Recently he began again to borrow money, in fact, we have the mortgage and not rich, but the younger brother does not matter, or to him. My parents do not live in their own relationship with the father-son relationship more tense, my mother told me that her in-laws his father is not the father is not around to tell his son all the, let me lose face in her husband's family especially. I especially admire those who her family unity and harmony of the person, and I did not. Soon, how can I deal with her parents?
in life, sharing on this maiden, in addition to tolerance to continue to help them, you have no way. However, you can properly face the cold, not responsive, but to find a way less and you called your mother and from her in-laws. You can solemnly declare his attitude: his brother I do not borrow money to you, because you already have a wife with children, you must take your own responsibility; father and mother, and you do not go out to utter swear again, and this will only lose me, my who lost big hair, and I can not mix in front, and then you can only rely on your old-age son was.
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9, her husband 7 years younger than me, when he talks to me and have been married On married his girlfriend, and now we love, married 3 years 4 years with a 2-year-old child. but his young age to deal with things is always very mature and have a strong Oedipus complex, plus I'm pregnant, have children, We there have been many contradictions. I think he no sense of responsibility, he thinks I told him well, did not care. because he was seriously ill when a child is born, to take care of his children until the age of 2 raised by the grandmother, and we therefore separated, and he therefore resentment. is he having an affair colleagues, contact with a lot of work and is a married woman, not sterile. he became fascinated by her dependence on him and worship, to live a simple life with her. things exposed, feel that they common trap to play down the matter, so that sub-harmonic grounds for divorce to become husband and wife. to ask Soon: want to forgive him once, after all, this was his first mistake, I do not know what to do? I do not need another husband and wife living with him ? (they have sex) I'm in the process how to protect yourself?
male female cow eating the tender grass, have this outcome is normal. you can forgive him, because people may temporarily possessed by the devil; but you have to know, even if the derailment of a divorce as long as he insisted, the court will put away; now they are in dire straits, you want to have sex with him, and he will give you your big order, and the other, but also expect to hold back tied him with sex, what you have , but also his lover, and certainly more exciting than you, He must restore the sex life with you, the mind will come back; currently the best way to protect yourself is to clean up the RBI valuables, try to do too much at the time of divorce Orimoto.
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10, I'm 25, and her boyfriend two years ago to give higher salaries (now 32) converge, in early engagement. is the work of leisure uncertain future annual income of 30,000, in addition to the parents to send 1 million, the rest are is used in conjunction with the two, I pay consumption, he kept the money to buy a house (I had insisted on pre-marital AA, his circle of friends are so helpless and had to support him, so he was strong. He has not changed over the past two years, still do not know so long, What is a woman does not necessarily blindly pay the uses of adversity. although he make progress, love of family labor of love..) deposits now only 1.5 million (his name), about 2 million commission shall be by the end of hair. He gave the students and fellow has been 5 years in sales, in addition to the boss skyrocketed, he is still struggling in poverty. He did a lucrative industry, low commission, and treat consumption and other telephone charges are not reimbursed, barely enough to spend his money. I propose own agency, earn more, agents advised him friends, but he can not hurt brotherhood refused.
5.1 this year to upgrade myself, I would like to report training, to be six thousand, he did not agree, the first that worried about my impulse to buy a house later changed to the current target. but he was driving to buy a notebook for business school clothes for mobile home, I very readily support. I think his heart without me, angry that 15,000 deposit required to open points out. through the Cold War or even making a huge fight broke up, he is still unmoved. A few days ago he broke open the deposit only give me three thousand, I am in tears. I have decided to return to the beginning. He and I belong to the same province, the provincial capital price is not high, my salary for the month also slightly more than enough. I also hope he can go back together, do agents that he did not agree. Shun Shun, who in the end is the kind of person? we continue? had to tell him convergence, I have hundreds of thousands of cheating parents, his hands down payment and the income is not low enough, I was not Fanjian ah, pumping me.
say too late to three years when the surplus value to the capitalist exploitation of it, stop quickly, hurry home, to find work and to have surplus real smart man, three-year-old before or can see you want a stable life. Do not worry about how their parents had it off, you just go back early, do not As for the transmission to the extremely harsh, they are happy.
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11, Busan, South Korea to study 3 years, two boys in South Korea under the care of a life. feeling good, when he defects are alone, and But the holiday to Seoul to live with the process, I burn, and he did not excuse the above classes to take me to the hospital, I arrived in Seoul, the poor, even the hospitals do not know where to look for dragging his leg. feelings look cool, and then quarrel and then fight, he identified that he did not look pleasing to the eye of the boss, why knocked the day off? and I am not a fool who never biting, arguing that no good to fly home to recuperate the. back After the anger is not so big house, but recall how he is Disadvantages: short stature, work in general, emotional level down to reality, no warmth of the veil, it is against but also resentment. If you do not burn will be able to go to get married? His family is his money that rich? working parents to spend the money before he very generous to me, after working all of a sudden mean, and birthday gifts are not given lightly as before, is not easy to make money or he felt he was like the fish hook the bait was not?
easy to get along I know that love is difficult, 2-year fate, unwilling to give up, but his past stem is the less. I 26, the master's degree right hand, why did I marry a good family him? had his greatest advantage is that meticulous care of me, and now this advantage is gone, he saw only a very short, it is not to do such faults. not to mention their parents marry he would discard thousands of miles, it is what courage? see leg scars, I can not say what I have courage.
Korea then a small place, employment opportunities and good men are not more than domestic. As long as China can be a satisfactory positions, they do not go out, While the world, is indeed living the same way: every breath, we must work, have dinner, have sex.
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13, I am 32 years old, 2 half years ago, married a German husband, a very good relationship. moved to Germany that everything is simple, the first school in the German language, and then find a job using the language advantage. but really difficult to find a job here. This year I learned more than two years language, degree of good, free for a year at home because he did not get mm work. No plans to the baby, her husband want me to adapt to German society, to run around looking for their own time to talk with the baby (he was busy at work) The best way is to first work, so have the opportunity to communicate with people and improve myself. can the current economic crisis, can not achieve this expectation. Now I was admitted State University, I would like to learn something, then there may be better jobs. However, a 4-year college, 4 years later I have 36, and not too old to have children is the point? not looking for work, and read what university do?
my husband of 10 years old. In fact I quite contradictory attitude of the child, want to, say mixed baby beautiful, but not afraid of their own raising mm I grew up in unhappy families, psychological shadow. but not to have children, missed the age, perhaps a lifetime of regret. see marrying other girls came to life, how no me so much trouble? along, how to balance my children to school work? Furthermore, in order to find a job to go on a 4 year college, worth it?
you and 6, the same is, we all want to get better by reading the work of research opportunities; you and her different is that she needs to study his own pocket, you study funded by your man, so I'm support you to study. and reading As can support a child during that time to find a nanny or domestic relatives and friends to help you, but also basic things correct it. Of course, this will be hardship, and you can not suffer mm things first do not want to have a child.
hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh < br> 14, my boyfriend at first sight, along the last six months, is found to have problems: pay more attention to his cause, I feel affectionate a waste of time, we should get down to business. he rarely chatted with me, and sometimes talk to me absent-minded; but I am more care about these, I hope her boyfriend to accompany me, and I often feel neglected. So contradictions trouble a few times, I also mentioned breaking up, regardless of his compromise, and he pointed out that good, I hope I will not casually mention to break up, Finally, points will be really afraid. I know it wrong is not good, want to change, how can I overcome this trouble? I accompanied her boyfriend how to change the old to the concept of it?
attend if you can not accept the reality of busy people, You substitutions. If you want to change themselves to meet him, then from when he was just a boyfriend, not a talking to or playing companion, and when anything not expect him to share with you just me busy man mm as to tell you, no matter how busy busy man, but also on their loved one is very concerned about, unless the non-essential people, it would not want to break up, you do not want to waste the effort.
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15 , matchmaking network knowledge with the province's twenty-year-old male different city, a short history of marriage, and I sincerely want to develop, let me go to his city to meet, and bring my mother, saying that what he was in possession toll. He and parents live, Shun sister you said I like this situation, and his development? I can go to different places, and he and his parents to live with it? My mother is a person. I go or should not see this face? I No work of this city, who led the grass but did not permit the ceremony to leave. I also older, where to go?
you anyway, now do not work, take your mother to his travel trip, find near his home a short rent, much longer time, do not sleep with him, more contact with more understanding, to see him and his family, then decided to take his mother not to marry in the past.
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16, we home, love, he loves me far more than I love him, I fell ill, he would take me to the hospital, doctors now to hear my name will say will buy lunch for me, always gave me a gift, to chat with me, regardless of where he will be a business trip to tell me ahead of time. He said I was his favorite women, 90% of the love he gave me, and he wants us to have One day can really together, even after a very, very old. The two sides do not want to hurt the family, I know he said they do this is sincere. He saw my LG loves me, I care, he said he was happy, because someone in his life to take care of for me. and I saw him with LP, even if they did not do, will be very jealous, jealous they have many things in common. festivals, and his business, he would LP I bought him a gift, although my gift is better than his LP, but I'm still jealous.
He said he was only responsible, but I often do blame him, blame him not me, not specificity. is not too overbearing I was too selfish, and have psychological problems? gender difference or because we, men and women's views on love is different in this? why he received such a generous view and my family, and I was can not accept him? this very tangled, and often find him and his troubles. wisdom of following along, please help me.
will sooner or later he dumped you, because you are bragging, but I do not know his real needs. Also, do not take this affair to-hyun, the kind of public hospitals, the best little bar appear together.
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17, married 3 years, two children. just like her husband before marriage reached a consensus with the elderly live in separate . but no less with her husband after marriage fight for the mother. nagging mother nature committed twist, divorce, particularly dependent son. I have always been very independent and accustomed to democracy and freedom, both big and small do not like her mother commented Sui Suinian, less trouble Bother! now her every Friday night to my house for 3 months, her husband usually very busy weekend for me is a precious family time together, her mother in, feeling awkward. Sometimes I feel like an outsider. mother never do do not ask for my advice, skip my husband to communicate directly. I do not thirty-eight, she asked what I have, however, I am very unhappy but she felt not being respected.
marriage has always been my household, but her mother tried to integrate into our house, almost pathological. First she have time to fuss, while stomach pain while leg pain, and fully control my husband's compassion, coupled with her love life will not ring true that her husband, the poor, even thought I Rational also partial to his mother, almost indiscriminate white! even though her mother is not in my house, but also for fear of being eliminated, to telephone remote control my home, what should be asked, what want in! She always ways to consolidate her in my house position. Shun Shun, I do not want to be manipulated, do not want people I care about my family tube baby, do not want to hurt the feelings of the couple because she does not like to listen to nagging, I'm disgusted me crazy, how do?!
treatment of the manipulative and the nosy people who are particularly addictive, and only fire with fire: She covered the family do not want to, not like she was all up CD, so yeah, we have around the house to give her baby to a man got on, we go Travel we go shopping we go to socialize, seven days a week from our house to ask her to do Explorer. wait on her son and her grandson, the total should not complain about it, we do not have her serve, we flash out, told her to brandish the house carefully. Since the seat so popular female dispensers, dispensers, let her do better. so tiring her lying, Leibing, and will not dare to come. Of course, this move Bacheng to offend you man, so you want to talk about with men clear: In order to control the desire to meet your mother, I am going to have the whole family to her, I was going to work, enjoy a good life gone, you do not have opinions Oh, this is what your mother filial piety. mm bear children sets live that Han, if you do not cruel, you should always gratifying.
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18, my boyfriend and I sometimes get down to business, said of his wrong, he will not pulled my other place to . I say we say one thing, now that you, your finished first again for me. He said yes, but he went on to say, there would repeat that I am old. I was depressed, such a man is how is it? see him very intelligent, also quite understand truth, and how their own fault can not admit it? says he right when I have to not have to pulled to suppress me? In fact, he told me just fine, but also quite got the idea, smart people make progress.
without him, the man a buck only.
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19, female 29, her boyfriend of 31, he looks more handsome, decent work a good family, is I good friend and colleague's ex-boyfriend, because I led them to break up the relationship, friends and our break, so far reluctant understanding. our relations over the past year, several times during the shifting alliances, many times I have determined because of grievances with the his broken, probably give up giving up because of a break is often a call to continue his struggle. with his contacts tiring, I'm not sure if he really love me? If you love, why do I always feel that he was aloof, not good enough , so I do not have a sense of security, communication has never give me any promises about the future, although I surface does not matter, but my heart is anxious and would like to hurry up and marry him; does not love, with me sometimes is quite good, and not willing to completely let go of. In fact, there are other conditions during the good men to pursue me, but I did not feel them.
boyfriend to pay a lot of girlfriends before he broke up with another reason for my friend , he said he did not want to get married so early, like N years later on the marriage. I do not know that was his excuse or real ideas, or just the idea he had, now have to change? help my analysis of his attitude it! I Does this continue to be with him a delay? my side of the fear of wasted youth, while they think will stick for the end, after all, he has gone through a lot, age is not small.
corner pry friend and colleague to prove You bad enough in principle, so you can not correctly judge the man and feelings. He may in the future you got married, but a woman spoiled by a man, even if her husband can do to give you any good? your colleague and good Friends of the more lucky than you, she can not bother to get rid of early practical man, you are more stupid, stupid people eventually become a great possibility Jour, I'm waiting for you after six months or even cry three to five years .
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20, Female 23, awareness of a soldier a year, and basically fall in love, always telephone and online and has been good. This year I graduated from college, I do not know why he mentioned breaking up, I do not understand, is it my problem to find a job? or too far away? he in the west, since I do not know whether the back, I said, willing to wait for him. until fine. broke up he found a place near his girlfriend, is also separated far. I do not understand, the military will lie? I am very upset, was very upset, because I'm serious, I can not leave him, although I often tell myself, have passed, but I always involuntarily Looking back the past. how can I do? I do not want to destroy them, but who knows my pain, who can help me to forget the past?
he put you, give you a wide road to go, or else really consumed with him go to the West to do business you either hopeless Junsao, or separated into two tired mother. Sooner or later you will be grateful to him abandoned, really, you can have a better life for you and a better future. the other, what people may lie, the military a career, not a moral proof.
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21, smooth, and you then how bringing up two children? I mother, and tired, but also fun! tired catch mad, Xiangtiao Lou; hi envy you the time, once had two treasure. human life is so circuitous degree steps. suddenly want to write to you, hope you are happy, very smart, very beautiful. I hope you happy listening Everyone complaining.
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