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 Kai-fu Lee's third letter to Chinese students: successful, confident, happy 2006-09-26 13:29:20 Source: Netease Forum User Reviews 3 into the Forum
Prior to this, and I share many Chinese students are focus on how to achieve excellence and excellence, how to become leaders and launched. Recently, in chat rooms and I received many e-mail, I found that more Chinese students need to know not how from good to great, but how From confusion to positive, from failure to success, from inferiority to self-confidence, from melancholy to joy, from fear to optimism.
An extreme example is the February 2004 took place in Yunnan University Majiajue events. Majiajue brutally murdered his four classmates. But Ma Jiajue was arrested conversations with the psychologist's opinion, he should not be an evil person, but a lost, lack of self-confidence, character enclosed children. He and many college students, eager to know how to be successful, confident and happy.
my letter is for those who want to succeed but that the success of reach, but always eager to self-pity self-confidence, desire happiness but I do not know why things happy students to read. hope this letter will give the reader a new one on the definition of success, encouraging readers to understand and recognize themselves to be a happy person. also hope that this letter will help readers understand the success, confidence, happiness is a virtuous cycle: there can be confidence from the success and happiness can be obtained from the self-confidence in a happy and successful, can be obtained from pleasure in the success and confidence.
success is to be the best American writer William
your own. Faulkner said: measure of whether each person evaluation, more personal wealth as an indicator. But with the best results can contribute to society? Yes fame certainly happy?
true success should be diversified. success may you create new wealth or technology, may be brought happiness for others you may be on the job you get the trust of others may also find the back of your self, inoffensive way of life. The success of each person is unique. So, Ling Zhijun in its to understand themselves, explore their goals and interests, efforts to pursue progress, so that my every day better than yesterday.
successful first step: take aim in life, be a proactive person
in Sina chat room, when friends ask what my goal in life, I was so answered: to help countries to help the world, to help future generations, allowing them to enjoy better, more efficient, can bring them happiness and joy. put from the second grade the problem. I had to give up work in the United States, alone came to China was founded Microsoft Research China, because I think the latter is the work of greater influence, and my goal in life is more consistent. Besides, when I received to a sealed letter from confused students, write them a letter, I would think: so the birth.
Majiajue also realize his goal in life, but unfortunately he was arrested after the incident realize. He said: This one of the greatest problem is the meaning of life in the end I think what is the purpose? hh things in the future, at this moment I see, I was wrong. In fact, the meaning of life is that there really is. realize their goals in life a few months earlier, he would ask yourself before anything silly, and full of love of parents, sister, how would think of this? so, he may not go astray by.
Therefore, whether it is for the truth, in order to influence, or for pleasure, family, morality, tranquility, knowledge, innovation hh Once the goals in life, you can target, like me, under the guidance of life, decisively and make major life decision. each goal in life is unique. The most important thing is, you have to take the initiative to take their own life goals. but you should not be rushed, not in pursuit of so-called set your goals.
So, how to find your goal? many of my classmates asked me what their goals that? I can not answer, because only one person can tell what your goal in life, that person is yourself. only one place you can find your target, that is your heart.
I suggest you close your eyes, the first one comes in your mind the ideal record, as the answer without thinking is the most sincere the. Or, you can look back at your happiest, most rewarding of life is, is there something in common? they are probably the most motivating your life goal. Furthermore, you can imagine what, fifteen years later, when you reach the perfect state of life, what kind of environment you will be in? what kind of work? One of the most fun thing is what? Of course, you may wish to talk about family and friends, listening to listen to their views.
successful second step: to try new areas to explore your interests
yourself to be the best, the most important thing is to play to their full potential, pursue the most interesting and the most passionate thing. When you are interested in a certain area, you will be walking to class or taking a bath when they never forget it, you're in the area easier to be successful. Furthermore, if you are in this area passion for it and sleepless nights you may even think of an idea when to sleep, will jump. this time, you are no longer working for success, but to Since then, success will be.
, relatively speaking, not interested in doing their own things only half done, there may be nothing. Even if you rely on intelligence or talent to do it well, you definitely do not release all of the potential. So I do not agree with every student pursuing the most popular professional, I believe that everyone should understand their interests, passion and ability (that is, emotional intelligence has said the in full play to their potential.
Bill. Gates said: words, we can see his interest in software technology and passion .1977 years because the love of the software, Bill. Gates to give up mathematics. If he left school at Harvard to continue reading and become a math professor, you He could imagine the potential will be suppressed and to what degree? 2002, Bill. Gates, Microsoft's 25 years in leadership, but decided the CEO job to Steve Ballmer, because the only way he can join in mm his favorite work as chief software architect, specializing in software technology innovation. Although the Bill. Gates was a great CEO, but when he he was named chief software architect, his company's technology direction made a significant contribution and, more importantly, he is more passion, more happiness, and which also inspired the morale of all employees.