How high is your EQ

 Zeng Guoping
CCTV International (2005 09  14  15:17)
Speaker Profile: Zeng Guoping: graduated from Chongqing University in 1982, assigned to teach self-PARTY items; taught at Chongqing University in 1987 transferred to . Chongqing University successively as Deputy Director of Department of Social Sciences, Trade and Law vice president and president.
has exceptional as associate professor and professor; is an independent director serve as the two companies, a number of business consultants, a number of county's consultant. hundred first national Relations into the twentieth century, the nineties, a new term been found, the concept proposed by Who? we can not grasp their own emotional intelligence?
since it was discovered that the concept of emotional intelligence after the EQ is more and more people use, so in life, we heard people say that this man of high intelligence, this person is high EQ or emotional intelligence quotient is high, then the emotional intelligence refers to what factors in the end, how do we judge their own emotional intelligence do?
know the importance of emotional intelligence, everyone We all like to have high emotional intelligence, in fact, emotional intelligence is not a fall from the sky, nor is it coming out the ground, more than our brains innate thing. So Emotional Intelligence come from? we do to improve their emotional intelligence?
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the success of intelligence, although extremely important factor, but affect a person's life, more or your personality, your outlook, your values, your patience, your confidence, you perseverance, your emotions, your feelings, the quality of the famous psychologist .1960 watts. Michel made a candy experiment, the candy experiment what is it? Nursery School at Stanford University,UGGs, he did experiments to convene a group of year-old child, in a hall inside the walls, not too fancy, how to do them, and everyone put in front of a candy, said to them, the children, teachers to go out for a while, before you Do not eat candy, and those who eat it, we can not add you a candy. If you get hold of yourself do not eat the candy, the teacher will then reward you back to a paste. teacher left, the teacher peep out Many people, peeping out, these year-old child, the teacher had gone, we see candy, temptation, sweet ah. Some kids go hand out some time, and withdrew it, went out again, but also reduced back, after a while, some children began to eat. but there is a lot of kids persevered, and the teacher came back later, give hold, and did not eat candy, and then reward one. this thing finished? not finished, analysis of the teacher, what do they persevered? some children to count her fingers, do not see the candy. Some of them head on your arm, and some sleep, to make their own bed. Some few number, two three four, do not go. this thing finished? not finished, they continue to observe the continued analysis of these children in elementary school, middle school, they discovered, can not go hold his candy, and the After junior high school, most of the performance is better, performance is relatively good, better spirit of cooperation, perseverance, and unable to control their own, performance is not good, not just junior high school, out of the social performance, probably so. then the candy incident tell us? control yourself, control, this test does not make people aware of the mysterious, the role of intelligence in the past, the value of life estimates high, there are other factors to consider, for success in life other factors should have won.
friends, we talked about last time, to outwit the time when there is a character mentioned three countries, he called Zhou Yu, Zhou Yu handsome, handsome young man, IQ high, will lead the troops to fight. It is said that evaluation of Mao Zedong, Comrade Zhou Yu also an evaluation, it says, it is said, what Mao Zedong said, Na Zhou is a League member. Zhou Yu how is the Youth League? Is that way to young Zhou When a high official, when the viceroy. cadres, veteran, old leaders are against him, such a young age when the high official, and later 33-year-old Zhou, Huoshaochibi, playing a major victory, veteran cadres, veteran leaders have served him . He's such a high IQ of a person, then how to die? Yes, death by three gas wise. , syncope, and slowly woke up, and slowly woke up, he Yangtianchangtan, both Sheng Yu, He Shengliang. He cried for a few sound, several times the number of sound Lianjiao died, aged 36, life was precisely the cause of Zhou Yu peak and has been successful, he should have been more successful, it should be continued success, but he means well, when high gas expensive, encountered adversity, he both Sheng Yu, He Shengliang. He can not tolerate narrow-minded person, love angry,Bailey UGG boots, angry, Jixianduneng, repeatedly trying to kill Zhuge Liang. So, he not only failed to achieve even greater victories, has not continued success, but because much of the anger and the early die, and sad, regrettable.
In modern society this is the case, many child prodigy, everyone says he is smart, prodigy ah, but not as people imagine it looks like, grow up to amount to anything, no, why? Although some students are also smart, but withdrawn, bizarre, alienation, not cooperation. Some vulnerabilities can not be inferior to face setbacks, some impatient, stubborn, conceited, emotional instability, and some indifference, irritability, nervousness, and is difficult for people around communication. in particular, some self-centered, everything I, I,UGG shoes, I do not care for others, do not care about others, always like the people around one turn around. Some great experts, and some experts even if it is large people, particularly high IQ, so it may be a subject of players, there are a certain reputation. But they still unsatisfactory cooperation with others, human harsh critical, can not forgive people, can not tolerate people, the big expert on how people Office, the arm's length, and later may become a loner, not a line of National Cheng Kung University climate research team. there are many people, although not superior intelligence, not too smart, and even we think that he may or low IQ, but later became a career, but became a success, but made great achievements, but to succeed.
reporter was diverted to the United States to do business management, students at one time he found a strange phenomenon, when the results of the class reading flat, but have been successful, while the results were good, with high IQs, but then there are many people out of society after the modest achievements. then the other classes is not will this be? He also learned about the other classes, almost as well, so he come to a conclusion, in a person's success achievements, IQ accounts for only 20%. that there is 80% what is it? he did not know what he was struggling to find ah, 80% find that the success of what it is In 1995, Harvard University professor Daniel. Goleman he wrote a book, this one is called However, we the average person, even people you have to admit that the whole world, and very worried about the general question, the general trend that he made, and what trend? relatively modern children alone, depression,bailey UGG boots, different way, headstrong, hyperactive, anxiety, impulsivity, which say it, many parents say ah, that is the case. especially the parents of one child in our country is such a lot, would resonate. When people find reasons for what causes such a result to find a number of reasons, find the root cause, find, and find what is emotional intelligence, is emotional, and emotion. EQ is a particularly important and successful factor. that IQ is too high, then high IQ, EQ is not high not will succeed, not necessarily continued success. but not too high IQ, EQ is relatively high, but also very likely to succeed.
a result, people increasingly believe that emotional intelligence on success and to win more than IQ. So, that to find 80 % of people searched and searched, ah, find, and IQ accounted for 20% of success, emotional intelligence accounts for 80% of success. is the writing of is the ability of emotional intelligence ability, not intelligence. So What some people say the word, intelligence precious, price higher emotional intelligence.